In all my loss experiences, I felt helpless. I couldn't bring my father or my step-father back to life and ease my mother's pain - nor could I reverse my husband's stroke and have that "normal life" again for our children.  Those initial days of experiencing different types of loss all left me nauseous and my heart heavy. I prayed to God to help my through these tough burdens because I couldn't do it on my own-I was literally sick. I couldn't afford to get down. As a teenager, I had to  I had to be strong for my mom and my siblings following my step-father's passing. As an adult, I had to keep going -not only for our children, but also as a caregiver for my husband. 

I know your pain. I was there. Here I am, years later, still pressing on. Yes, we all feel weak in times of loss. This is so normal even though we don't like being in this lessened state. Innately, I have always tried to see the positive in any situation-this is called hope. We all must find that flicker of light in our time of darkness. Sometimes it isn't easy, but without it, the darkness can consume us. 

We must surround ourselves with light, positivity, and love. This takes effort at times. We have to do it "on purpose". Listen to positive speakers-whether it be a podcast or a video on Youtube. Meditate each day in silence and let your mind be clear so you can get the messages you need. Pray for strength and all your needs. Reach out to those who lift you up.  You are worth it. Always know how special you are-you were put on this earth for a reason to use your great gifts. 

May you always see that flicker of light in times of darkness and may that light shine brighter and brighter each day. God bless and always know your greatness within.......

Hugs and love to you,

Vickie